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How To Get Better Grades – How To Quickly Achieve Your Goals

Simple question: Do you know what you are trying to achieve (in your education or just in life in general) – and why? Really think about that question. It’s more important that anything.

If you don’t understand what you’re trying to achieve or why you’re trying to achieve it then you have absolutely no hope of getting there. Why? Well where are you trying to get to anyway? You haven’t even defined it remember! So step one is to create a goal want to achieve and a goal you actually understand.

Once you have established the “what” and the “why”, you can move to the next step – the “who”. As in, who do you need to be to make sure that goal happens? What sort of actions do you need to take? How will you know if you are really on track or if you are just kidding yourself? Are you becoming the person you need to become to achieve the goal? Or are you just hoping that you can be exactly as you are now and still achieve the goal?

Let’s look at this another way. What actions do you take each and every day in order to progress your skills and attitude to the point where your goal can become a reality? Are you taking any actions? Or are you just doing what you normally do but hoping that because you “set a goal” that something amazing will happen?

Achieving a goal is a process not an event. The problem is that people don’t like processes – we like events! You see, we like to get an A+ on our Maths test, but we don’t want to do the study and homework required (i.e. the process) to get the A+, we just want the event – the great score!

We like the idea of looking fit and healthy but we don’t like part where we have to eat well and exercise constantly. Do we? It all makes sense when you understand that we don’t like the process – we just like the events.

This is exactly what happens in our studies. Most students have a dream of that going to College or University, or having a great career one day or of starting their own business, but the process of actually getting to that level of education is often long and painful.

All of the homework, the tests, the exams and the assignments required to get good grades can really break the back of even a student with the best intentions!

The process of passing school is hard, the process of being an A+ student is even harder. However, the events along the way, such as getting a good grade on a test, or getting a good report card, or getting into the College of your choice, are the enjoyable “events” (i.e. the rewards) for going through the process.

This is important when we consider setting our goals and seeking to achieve them. Obviously, if the event itself is the only reason we setting the goal then it makes sense that we are going to struggle through the process required to realize the goal. That’s just common sense isn’t it?

So, when you set a goal you need to consider the process of how this goal is going to come about. If you decide that you want to get an A+ in Maths (and by the way rule number one of goal setting is to make the goal specific not airy fairy like “I want to improve in Math”) then what you really need to ask yourself is “Who do I need to become to achieve an A+ in Maths? What actions do I need to take on a daily basis to achieve an A+ in Maths?”

Achieving goals doesn’t happen by chance. You must understand what the goal is and why it is important – and then you must make the decision to go through the process in order to reach the event. If you focus on the event (which is what we are inclined to do) you will find it very difficult to get through the process.

If you focus only on the event, the process won’t happen and the goal won’t be achieved. What will you decide?

How To Get Better Grades – How To Quickly Achieve Your Goals

Your Goals, Quickly Achieve Your Goals, Achieve Your Goals

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Studying Tips – How To Easily Achieve Your Goals

The first rule of goal setting is defining what you want to achieve. Simple right? The second rule is understanding why you want to achieve it. It’s not enough to simply define the goal, you must also be really dedicated to the “why” part of it as well. If you’re not, nothing will happen. Don’t believe me?

 Well ask yourself, why would you passionately pursue something if you don’t know why you’re doing it?

Once you have created a goal you want to achieve and understand you can move to the next level. The next level asks you to ponder the following questions: who do you need to become in order to achieve your goals? What do you need to do in order to achieve your goals? Are you being brutally honest about whether you are working diligently towards your goal or are you really just hoping that by some miracle your goal will be achieved?

Let’s look at this another way. What actions do you take each and every day in order to progress your skills and attitude to the point where your goal can become a reality? Are you taking any actions? Or are you just doing what you normally do but hoping that because you “set a goal” that something amazing will happen?

As people, we love to focus on events – not the process. What do I mean by that?

Well, we love to step on the scales and see that we are four pounds lighter than we were last week – we don’t love the training and the dieting! Do we? We love to watch and experience the Super Bowl, we don’t love to watch the hours of practise and drills the players go through to perfect their on-field systems which allows them to make it to the big game. We love events – not processes.

Getting good grades is hard work. Being fit and healthy is hard work. Being a great musician is hard work. The process of achievement always weeds out the weak – and unfortunately it doesn’t always reward the strong.

Passing school is hard and getting good grades is even harder. But the rewards (i.e. events) along the way, such as getting a positive report card, serve to reinforce the desire and attitude required to go through the process to see the ultimate event happen. It’s survival of the fittest. When events don’t happen, or the event seems too far away and out of each, the process becomes too much to handle.

This is a significant distinction in terms of goal setting and goal achievement. Keeping in mind that because we love events and not processes, it stands to reason that we will struggle to achieve the goals we set for ourselves. Why? Well we don’t want to go through the hard yards to make it happen. We just want the event – the goal being achieved! Make sense doesn’t it?

By focusing on the process (and not just the event) and how the process is going to occur you are far more likely to achieve your goal. By asking yourself who you need to become to achieve your goal (like “Who do I need to become to achieve an A average for Science?”).

You are demonstrating that you understand how a goal is actually achieved – and questioning how you are going to make it through the process. So, who do you need to become to achieve the goals you want to achieve?

Achieving goals doesn’t happen by chance. You must understand what the goal is and why it is important – and then you must make the decision to go through the process in order to reach the event.

If you focus on the event (which is what we are inclined to do) you will find it very difficult to get through the process. If you focus only on the event, the process won’t happen and the goal won’t be achieved. What will you decide?

Studying Tips – How To Easily Achieve Your Goals

Your Goals, Achieve Your Goals, Easily Achieve Your Goals

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